What to Pack for a Destination Bachelorette Party
Lucky you! You’re headed off for a destination bachelorette party, ensuring sun, drinks, great company, and new experiences. But what do you pack? Here are our suggestions:
- A great piece of luggage. You need something to carry everything around in, so why not get one that draws some attention your way? This cute Bride Duffle is only $24.99!
- Decorations. You can make a hotel room feel more festive with some easy-to-pack decorations, like balloons!
- Sash for the Bride to Be. You decorated the hotel room, now decorate the bride! We recommend this “Bride to Be” sash.
- A Party Dress. You’ll most likely be going out on the town at least one night, so pack something cute!
- Sunglasses. Whether you’re going to a sunny locale or need to nurse a hangover, sunglasses will come in handy. These heart-shaped glasses will remind you all that you’re partying because of love!
- Lip Balm and Sunscreen. If you’re going to be out in the sun, stay safe with some SPF! Plus, lip balm will keep the single ladies’ lips kissable in case you meet up with any hotties.
- Sleep Mask. You’ll most likely be rooming with a bunch of ladies. If you need to get some sleep (or want to catch some Zzz’s before going out at night) this sleep mask will help you out.
- Cute Pajamas. Staying up all night gossiping and laughing in your PJs can be a huge part of Bachelorette parties. Make sure you pack something cute to wear, like these “Something Blue” pajamas
- Swimsuit. Whether you plan on relaxing on a beach or splashing around in the hotel pool, you want to make sure you have a swimsuit with you!
- Passport. Heading out of the country for your bachelorette party? You’re not going to want to forget this!
What else should you bring with you for a bachelorette party? Let us know in the comments!
Employee Profile: Meet Jen!
We love the ladies that work with us at The House of Bachelorette, and know you’ll love them too! This week, we get to know Jen!
Your role at The House of Bachelorette:
Ops Manager.
Favorite Product from The House of Bachelorette:
The Bachelorette Drink Tags and the Cocktail Dicky straws.
If you were to have a bachelorette party today, what would you do?
I’d go to Vegas or Napa Valley for wine tasting.
What’s your favorite thing about working for The House of Bachelorette?
I can’t pick just one–the work/life balance, atmosphere, and team!
Say “Hi” to Jen in the comments, and feel free to ask her questions! Stop by next week to meet another great lady from The House of Bachelorette!
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Bachelorette Party Checklist
3 – 6 Months from the Wedding
- Talk with the Bride – What does she want to do? What items and activities are off-limits? Make sure you cater the evening to her!
- Pick the Bachelorette Party Date - This is usually on a weekend a week or two before the wedding. You don’t want to have the party the night before the wedding unless you plan something early that doesn’t involve alcohol. Check with the bride to make sure she’s free!
- Pick a Bachelorette Party Idea - Bachelorette parties can be as unique as the bride! Visit The House of Bachelorette for Bachelorette Party theme ideas, or visit our Pinterest page for inspiration. Once you select an idea – start planning! Come up with decor, party favors, dress code, games, and food and drink that all fit with the theme.
- Send a Save-the-Date Email to the invitees - Let them know the date (advanced notice is ideal – especially if they are buying plane tickets!), the party idea, the bride’s requests, and ask if anyone would like to help with the planning.
2 – 3 Months prior to the Bachelorette Party
- Book the Venue, buy the tickets, order the transportation, following your Bachelorette Party Idea - You may need to collect the pricing info and e-mail the attendees to send you money for tickets and other items you have to purchase in advance. Buying tickets in one big block means you know you’ll all be together and you won’t have to worry about one girl forgetting to purchase her ticket!
1-2 Months prior to the Bachelorette Party
- Make all the final reservations - Restaurants, party rooms, tables at the club, transportation, etc. Make certain to ask for discounts/specials.
- Send out the official Bachelorette Party invite - Make sure to let the attendees know if a contribution is needed from them and let them know the amount. Send the final itinerary with the invite.
2 weeks – 1 Month Prior to the Bachelorette Party
- Plan your Bachelorette Party Bags – Fill it with all the items you will need to have a BLAST, and make enough for all of the ladies in attendance. We recommend including something fun for everyone to wear, a treat for the night, something related to the night’s theme, and a small “Hangover kit” if you plan on drinking!
- Order all of your Bachelorette Party Items - A Tiara/Veil, feather boas, naughty props, a naughty gift for the bride, any supplies you may need for the games, etc. Visit TheHouseofBachelorette.com for all of your bachelorette party supply needs!
- Order custom items for the Bride – Want the bride to stand out? Get her a custom item with her name on it! She can re-wear it for the wedding and honeymoon. The House of Bachelorette has some fantastic custom rhinestone items for her.
1 Week Prior to the Bachelorette Party
- Create your Bachelorette Party Playlist – Take a look at our suggestions for some of the best Bachelorette Party songs!
- Follow up on RSVPs – If there are some ladies you still haven’t heard from, reach out to them so you can get final counts for the big night.
The Day before the Bachelorette Party
- Send a reminder to the bride and the guests – Let them know when and where to meet, and remind them of anything specific they’re supposed to wear/bring.
- Prep items for the party - Fill the goody bags, make sure you have all of your decorations and supplies needed for the games.
- Wrap the bride’s gift – Make sure to write a fun note to accompany it!
On the Day of the Bachelorette Party
- Arrive at the meeting place approximately 30 minutes early to make certain you are first to arrive. Take a couple of other Bachelorettes with you and have a drink! You deserve it!
- Keep an eye on the bride and make sure she’s taken care of throughout the night. It’s her party, make sure she’s the star!
- If you’re giving gifts, keep a tally of who gave what items so the bride can send out thank you cards.
Employee Profile: Meet Ana!
We love the ladies that work with us at The House of Bachelorette, and know you’ll love them too! This week, we get to know Ana!
Your role at The House of Bachelorette:
One of the newer employees! Filling orders and learning everything I can.
Favorite Product from The House of Bachelorette:
I love the custom rhinestone tank tops and sashes!
If you were to have a bachelorette party today, what would you do?
Have the most awesome party with fun stuff we sell! My friends would all be jealous!
What’s your favorite thing about working for The House of Bachelorette?
All the great ladies I work with. 
Say “Hi” to Ana in the comments, and feel free to ask her questions! Stop by next week to meet another great lady from The House of Bachelorette!
Reasons to Have a Bridesman
Your best friend is a guy, and you want him to be a part of your wedding party. A lot of brides in this situation would have him be a groomsman and do everything with the groom and his friends. But there’s nothing wrong with keeping him on your side of the aisle! Here are some reasons why it’s just fine (and even preferred) to have a bridesman in your wedding party.
- No complaints about the bridesmaid dress. Your guy will most likely wear a suit or tux similar to the ones the groomsmen wear. You can make him a different boutonniere or have him wear a different vest or bowtie to show that he’s on the bride’s side.
- No cattiness. Guys are known for telling it to you straight. If they have a concern, you need an answer, or they’re not getting along with someone, you can depend on them to handle it in a more straightforward and honest way.
- You’ll get a guy’s point of view. Getting a surprise gift for the groom and want a guy’s opinion? Talk to your bridesman!
- It’s more personal. If your best friend is a guy, then you should have him up there with you. Who cares what wedding traditions say? It will mean much more to you as you walk down the aisle to see your true friends up there with you, not your random co-worker you picked to fill out the lineup.
- He’ll serve as your “Male Ambassador.” Having a guy at your bridal shower or bachelorette party means it may not get as cheesy or girly, which is a plus for many brides. Plus, he’ll make an excellent wing-man for your single friends when you’re out on the town.
Are you thinking of having a bridesman or a man of honor in your wedding? Talk to him and make sure he’s ok with being on “your side.” And make sure to let the ladies know a guy will be attending the bachelorette festivities in case they had any female-only activities planned. Finally, grab him a bridesman sash or man of honor sash so he can join in on all of the fun and show off his status!
Let us know in the comments if you had a bridesman in your wedding!
Bachelorette Party Poll 2013: Trends and Costs
The House of Bachelorette polled nearly 200 brides and bachelorettes to find out what’s hot in bachelorette party trends. We uncovered some secrets (are strippers going out of style?) and surprises (keep the dudes at home)! Check out this info-graphic for all the details:
Friday Dance Party: Waking Up in Vegas
We know a lot of you ladies are celebrating in Vegas: Here’s hoping you have a better experience than Katy Perry! (But if you have the option to wear some of her outfits and do some of the things she does in the video, take it!)
Are you having your bachelorette party in Vegas? What are you most looking forward to?
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How To Style Your Bachelorette Party Shirt
You’ve planned the party, but are still missing one thing: the themed shirts. We took some of our most popular shirts and paired them with fun outfits perfect for the bachelorette festivities. You’ll love the shirts so much, you’ll be looking for other excuses to wear them!
Ring Security 
Guard the bachelorette’s engagement ring and look like a badass in this secret services-inspired outfit. You’ll look hot and powerful! Ring Security shirt, $20.99. Metallic Rocker Sunglasses, $5.99.
Cowgirl
Yeehaw! Celebrate western-style with this fun top. The other ladies in the bachelorette party can wear our “Bride’s Posse” shirts. Make sure you get the bride a horseshoe necklace to bring good luck on the wedding day! I’m Getting Married Y’All shirt, $21.99. Western Straw Hat w/ veil, $24.99.
Vegas, Baby!
This outfit is feminine, wild, and influenced by Vegas, circuses, and cabarets. It’s ready for any adventure you can take it on! Vegas Bachelorette tank top, $18.99. Pink Top Hat with Black Veil, $42.99.
How are you planning on styling your bachelorette party shirt? Take a look at all of the shirts, bachelorette party supplies, and bachelorette party accessories we have available at TheHouseofBachelorette.com!
Friday Dance Party: I’m Too Sexy
Show everyone you’re too sexy when you do your turn on the catwalk this weekend!
Is your bachelorette party this weekend? Don’t forget to take pics! Send them along with a write-up of your party, and we may feature you on our blog and Pinterest! Send them to media@partystormco.com.