Jake and Vienna

Looks like Vienna Giraldi can recycle her bridal magazines. She and bachelor Jake Pavelka have split. They got engaged as millions watched the 14th season of The Bachelor on ABC. But Pavelka’s spokeswoman says the couple is done. According to Yahoo! News Janice Lee said “Jake and Vienna have split. They appreciate the respect for their privacy at this time.”

Lots of people were shocked when 32-year-old Jake the pilot chose 23-year-old marketing rep Vienna over runner-up Tenley who everyone but Jake knew was the right choice. Only four of the 13 couples that hooked up on The Bachelor are still together.

So are you surprised?

Jen Schefft (Photo by Jason Kempin/FilmMagic)

Hey Bachelorette fans– remember Jen Schefft back from the 2003 season? She got the final rose and an engagement ring from Andrew Firestone in Season 3, and then went on to become The Bachelorette in 2005. Although Jen didn’t find love on the show, she is now married and just announced she’s expecting her first child. The baby is due in November. “I was shocked. I thought it would take more time,” she told the New York Daily News. “I took three tests because I didn’t believe it was true!”

Schefft, now 33 is married to a trader, Joe Waterman. The couple lives in Chicago and have been married since May 2009. They haven’t officially found out the baby’s sex, but Jen told the New York Daily News that she feels “like it’s going to be a girl.”

Are you ready for the first look at the Bachelorette Season 6 with Ali Fedetowsky? New photos were just released of the premier which airs on ABC on May 24 at 9pm.

Ali Getting to Know Her Men

During the season premier Ali will get to know the 25 bachelors and she’ll have to narrow the pool down to 17 by the end of the episode.

Ali Laughing with Bachelor Frank

Last season Ali chose her career with the website Facebook.com over love with bachelor Jake. But this time she’s putting love first, according to ABC.

Ali Focusing in on Bachelor Justin

Will you be tuning in to the latest edition of The Bachelorette on ABC? Let us know!

The newest season of ABC’s The Bachelorette doesn’t premier for another three months, but ABC is already working hard to make sure you tune in. They’ve just released new photos of the next bachelorette, Ali Fedotowsky.

The Newest Bachelorette

ABC released a press release saying:

The energetic and charismatic career-oriented woman from San Francisco has re-prioritized her life and now love comes out on top.

Ali, 25, has been a fan favorite from the moment she stepped out of the limo with her sexy raspy voice and a peacock feather to meet Jake Pavelka on the last season of The Bachelor. She became the front-runner for Jake’s heart, but instead they found themselves in a heartbreaking situation when she made a gut-wrenching decision to choose a job she loved over the man she loved. Ali made the surprising safe choice to go back to work, but regretted it immediately.

By the time she sorted out her work affairs, Jake had already moved on with his search for love with the three fabulous women who stayed with him, and he did not allow Ali to return.

But it’s not too late for Ali now. Admitting that she made one of the biggest mistakes of her life, she has let go of everything this time her apartment, her job, her stability to really make a life-changing commitment to put her heart first.

Will you be watching Ali as the next Bachelorette?

Millions watched as The Bachelor Jake Pavelka made his decision and handed the final rose to Vienna, not Tenley. Not only did the other bachelorettes have a bad feeling about Vienna– so did most of America. Maybe it had something to do with tabloid reports that Vienna stole money from her ex to get a boob job while he was serving in the military. Maybe it had something to do with Vienna’s first appearance on this season of The Bachelor, talking about how many cars she’s totaled only to have them replaced by her daddy. Either way, Vienna is the villain of The Bachelor.

During After the Final Rose Jake explained why he let Tenley, the cheery-as-a-Disney-character runner-up, walk away despite repeatedly confessing his love for her. For Jake, it came down to animal magnetism. He felt a fire with Vienna that just wasn’t there with Tenley. So that begs the question… is red hot passion enough to keep Vienna and Jake together? Let us know what you think.

A Pole Dancing Bachelorette Party at Pole for the Soul in Seattle, Washington

Pole dancing bachelorette parties are a great way to celebrate the end of the single life, create memories with your pals and launch into wedded bliss with some new knowledge that may spice up the honeymoon.

Lots of brides are strapping on stilettos for a night of pole dancing instruction rather than the typical bachelorette party at the bar.

Hire an at-home instructor like Pole Parties by Stacy and everything you need for a night of fun will be brought right to your door. Plus, Stacy says unlike a lot of pole dancing studios, bachelorettes are able to sip on some adult beverages at the same time. “Most studios don’t allow the ladies to enjoy cocktails in their studio, which is understandable,” says Stacy, “but a little ‘courage juice’ can sometimes help those who are a bit apprehensive!”

Krisha at Seattle-based Pole for the Sole says plenty of girls are apprehensive and nervous when they show up for a pole dancing bachelorette party. But once the class gets going, most women are pleasantly surprised. “Some girls get dragged along to a pole party because the bride wanted to do it. They think they will be clumsy or feel embarrassed or intimidated,” explains Krisha. “After the party they tell me that although they didn’t expect it, they ended up having more fun than they could have imagined and found a sexy side they didn’t even know was there.”

Wigs are Optional for Bachelorette Pole Parties (Photo courtesy of Pole Fitness Studio with Fawnia)

Krisha says it’s important for all bachelorette party attendees to remember that no one is going to judge you. “It doesn’t matter if you think you can’t dance or think you have no rhythm or don’t think you are graceful,” says Krisha. “And we have women of all ages and all body sizes, everyone woman (18 and older) is welcome! We have fun and easy moves that everyone can learn and enjoy.” And if you fall in love with pole dancing during your bachelorette party, most studios offer regular classes so you can improve your skills, tap into your sexy side and master the pole. Who knows, maybe you’ll end up wanting to install your own stripper pole at home.

Need a little help finding a pole dancing studio or instructor for your bachelorette party? Here are some to check out. Many companies have offered exclusive discount offers for The House of Bachelorette readers looking to organize a bachelorette pole dancing party. But keep in mind that The House of Bachelorette isn’t personally familiar with all of these companies so do some research on your own before signing up and strapping on those stilettos!

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Los Angeles

Torrance

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San Francisco

Sedusa Studios: SedusaStudios.com; San Francisco, Walnut Creek, and the Bay Area in California (408) 867.2224
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Modesto

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Orlando

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Maine Pole Dancing Studios

Portland

Pole Parties By Stacy: www.GotMoreFun.com; Portland, Maine (508) 737.2912

Nevada Pole Dancing Studios

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Portland

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Nationwide Pole Dancing Studios

I guess it’s true what they say; the man with the most chest hair wins. I’ve always had a thing for Ed’s nerdiness, his tank tops, and those super short swim trunks. And I guess Jillian Harris did too because that’s who she ended up with during the finale of The Bachelorette. Kiptyn Locke invited her to move to San Diego. Reid Rosenthal came back, shirt untucked, rushing out of a mini van taxi, trying to win her back. But neither man had the qualities Ed possesses.

This was a huge upset according to The House of Bachelorette poll asking you who Jillian should pick in the finale. Ed had just 18.42% of the popular vote, compared to Reid’s whopping 48.68%. Kiptyn ended up with 32.89% of the votes.

But now an even more important question– will Jillian become Mrs. Ed Swiderski? Take our new poll:

It’s your chance to vote! Which man should Bachelorette Jillian Harris pick? Judging by the promo for next week’s finale it looks like Reid is back in the mix. Let us know who you think Jillian should end up with!

Bachelor Wes finally got his ugly cowboy boots kicked to the curb this week on ABC’s The Bachelorette. I was nearly giddy that producers made him ride a bicycle through Barcelona and can only imagine what was really going through his head at the thought of having a picnic in a park. He never once kissed Jillian and when questioned about that said it was because he didn’t know if she wanted him to. It’s called romance, Wes and yes, every girl wants it!

I’m sad to say that since a serial killer was gunned down in my television market a breaking news interruption forced me to miss the end of Reid’s date and the beginning of Ed’s date, but as far as I could tell they both went smashingly well.

As for you, slimey Wes, I will never buy your stupid album. And I don’t think any Bachelorette-watching woman would– no matter how much she loved that one line of your music we heard over and over. But just because you’re a royal jerk, I still want to give you a gift courtesy of The House of Bachelorette. First of all there is this lovely trucker hat.

Livin the Life Trucker Hat

I believe it will always remind you of home, no matter where the dirty bar you’re singing in is located. I also want to give you this fab six foot tall inflatable pecker. Think of it as an award for being the world’s biggest dick.

Did you catch The Bachelorette last night? Tanner P. knocked out one more foot rub before Jillian finally came to her senses and let that boy go. She said that, while it was nice of him to try to protect her from heart breaker Wes, that Tanner P.’s demise was that he was too wrapped up in the man-drama and not focused enough on her. I think Tanner P. was the only one surprised that he was getting the boot. But in honor of our foot fetish bachelor here are two special gifts we here at The House of Bachelorette would give him if we could:

An Extra Large Piece of Man Candy for Tanner P.

The man candy is in honor of his mini strip tease that showed off his– um– big blessing. Although those of us at home just saw a blurred out pair of undies, according to Jillian his man candy was rather large! The other gift we would give Tanner P:

Some Super Cute Flips to Show Off Our Tootsies

Because we all know Tanner digs the toes, we’d show them off in these lovely Sole Mates Flip Flops. And we’d be sure to paint our toenails Mango Mango so that maybe– just maybe– Tanner P. would call us a perfect 10 in the foot department.